As we are moving into spring and eventually summer I decided that this may be a necessary post. With all the talk of summer and spring love in the air I have advice that anyone can use. I am mainly speaking to girls, because I think that there is a lot of false information out there and I want to give my opinion. Here are my tips.
- Love yourself. If you do not love your self not only will you not love anyone else but no one else will love you . My mother would always say, " what ever you say about yourself , people will agree with you ". If you say your are a queen and only deserve the best then you will only attract a king that is willing to give you the best.
- Don't search for love. Love will find you when you least expect it . When you try to hard , you seem desperate and no man wants a woman to hunt him down lol
- Develop your self to the fullest. Make sure that you are 100% independent, 100% confident, and 100% financially stable before you even think about getting into a relationship. A relationship needs two 100% people that will make a 200% couple . Forget that saying of 50/50. If you are not whole then you should not be in a relationship and should take some time out to develop yourself .
- Be yourself. Some men like short girls and some like tall girls. Some men like blue eyes and some like brown. There is someone in the world for everyone. Changing yourself to please someone is not only stressful it is cheating yourself from finding someone that is looking for someone just like you .
- Write a physical list. Write a physical list of what you want in a relationship.Be honest and do not be shallow about it either. After you are done writing about the list pray about it or confess this everyday, " I will be given ALL the desires of my heart."
- NEVER SETTLE. Do not settle on anything that is not the desire of your heart. The universe may throw things at you that are counterfeit, but do not give in. Also, ignore the haters that say you are picky , who cares if you have standards. At the end of the day it is not their life.
- ENJOY LIFE
The End Result of Following my Life Tips
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| Barack and Michelle Obama |
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| Dr. Phil and his wife Robin |
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