Sunday, March 17, 2013

How to: Have Self Confidence


Hello. Nowadays I think that there are a lot of people that lack basic self confidence. This is a horrible problem because lacking self confidence causes other issue such as: bad relationships, drug abuse, etc. Through my life I have gone on a journey to build my self confidence and I can finally say that I am a confident young lady. So here are my tips.


  1. Don't surround yourself with people that put you down. It is hard to be self confident when you are around people who make you the butt of the jokes, don't take you seriously, and really do not care to have your best interest at heart. 
  2. Be yourself. Don't be fake. It is hard to be confident in yourself when you are being someone else. 
  3. Don't put other people down. This just screams insecure. 
  4. Don't put yourself down. This just screams insecure as well. 
  5. Don't let other people put you down. 
  6. Repeat this mantra: I am beautifully and wonderfully made ten times a day. A lot of people don't realize the power of words. 
  7. Lift others up. You feel better about yourself when you make others feel better. 
  8. Be fine with being alone. You need to be at peace with yourself when you are alone in order to be truly confident. 
  9. Be a leader 
  10. Delve in to your hobbies. 
  11. Write a list of things that break your confidence. Once you have acknowledged these things say out loud that they have no control over your life. 
  12. Play up what makes you feel confident. 
  13. Realize that true confidence is a life long process, it does not just come at the snap of a finger.  
Me looking HAWT and rocking mega confidence !




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